tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post5549637297453073741..comments2023-04-01T12:48:21.462-07:00Comments on The Briar Patch: Victim Blaming, Codependency, and the AnalogyBriarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13714626226636654484noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-85013423968998911872016-08-02T11:02:21.775-07:002016-08-02T11:02:21.775-07:00This is IT exactly. This is IT exactly. Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06008944675945396659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-10430046195326513222014-10-31T13:00:29.834-07:002014-10-31T13:00:29.834-07:00One of the best scenario comparisons I have read. ...One of the best scenario comparisons I have read. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-23585764385541844362013-07-11T09:57:23.540-07:002013-07-11T09:57:23.540-07:00Brilliant, brilliant analogy. Thank you so very ve...Brilliant, brilliant analogy. Thank you so very very much. I subject myself to more than enough scrutiny and own my isms enough. I don't want or need to be pathologised because I am a bit wonky, v. empathetic and have demonstrated loyalty (albeit of the misguided kind) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-76693175356435892692013-07-03T01:56:14.031-07:002013-07-03T01:56:14.031-07:00love the page/blog I’m so glad Barbara shared it t...love the page/blog I’m so glad Barbara shared it to my domestic violence by proxy page, thank you<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-46880199250555955702011-05-10T22:14:51.508-07:002011-05-10T22:14:51.508-07:00Anonymous - First, I am so terribly sorry about yo...Anonymous - First, I am so terribly sorry about your recent discovery. <br /><br />I read "Codependent No More" years ago when I was in a marriage with an alcoholic, and there were definitely things in there about myself that I recognized. And I can certainly relate to the trauma model now, and I think sex addiction is a relational trauma. How could it not be? <br /><br />At the same Briarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13714626226636654484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-29673421854997482402011-05-10T22:05:16.149-07:002011-05-10T22:05:16.149-07:00Yes! Yes! Yes! Six weeks ago I discovered my husba...Yes! Yes! Yes! Six weeks ago I discovered my husband of almost 23 years has been cheating on me with lots of internet porn and with prostitutes for the last 7 yrs. I confronted as soon as I had evidence. He is in therapy, going to support grps, etc. I feel like I have been stabbed repeatedly, and then somebody kicked me in my gut while wearing a size 14 Army boot. And my psyche is NOT helped by Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-46081489468735776202011-05-06T19:26:03.077-07:002011-05-06T19:26:03.077-07:00I feel a little blushingly honored that Barbara sh...I feel a little blushingly honored that Barbara shared this on FB. Yikes!Briarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13714626226636654484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-55126744466041503442011-05-06T17:41:05.911-07:002011-05-06T17:41:05.911-07:00Just saw this referred on FB by Barbara Steffans -...Just saw this referred on FB by Barbara Steffans - glad she recommended it. Great analogy! =)Nonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16208890115089222559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-9747160858308832092011-05-04T21:41:33.993-07:002011-05-04T21:41:33.993-07:00I love this!!!!!!! SO good!I love this!!!!!!! SO good!Ellahttp://www.wifeofasexaddict.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-54774017672293233022010-11-27T10:55:53.300-08:002010-11-27T10:55:53.300-08:00hmmmm... sounds about right. ;)hmmmm... sounds about right. ;)RockiBottomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04326290443800066850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-30425250932069094252010-11-03T09:19:31.091-07:002010-11-03T09:19:31.091-07:00I lol'd darkly as I wrote some of scenario #2....I lol'd darkly as I wrote some of scenario #2. :PBriarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13714626226636654484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5413947404182808106.post-60964295046733929362010-11-02T23:09:20.094-07:002010-11-02T23:09:20.094-07:00I lol'd at parts in scenario #2I lol'd at parts in scenario #2Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17805281199840274328noreply@blogger.com